Men Vs. Women

Facebook Post on my wall from Loli Perez and my response

LP: Why does a guy come at you all strong, tell you you're beautiful every day, cuddle all night, randomly yet frequently says sweet things to make your day a little brighter and is noticably happy to see you...but after he already knows he has you, all that stuff goes out the window? Is it "The thrill of the chase?" Because if really you really want her to stay around, you'll keep chasing her...

ME: did you sleep with him too soon? That usually changes instantly.  For all the normal guys out there that just get tired of saying those things; we as women need to treat them like children and notice when their doing something right. Let him know that whatever he did, makes you feel special and you APPRECIATE HIM! Also work on complementing him when he does all the unnoticeable things, (like calling or texting just to say hi) soon the "you're pretty" comments will come back. We as woman are programed to expect the man to do nice things no matter what, it's their job. Stop expecting, their just human and they need gratitude just like we do.

Vocabulary I Love

Macerate:  Mas.er.rate

transitive verb

1: to cause to waste away by or as if by excessive fasting

2: to cause to become soft or separated into constituent elements by or as if by steeping in fluid; broadly : steep, soak

 

Wrest: rest

transitive verb

1: to pull, force, or move by violent wringing or twisting movements

2: to gain with difficulty by or as if by force, violence, or determined labor

 

I thrive on learning new things, embracing my idiosyncrasies, and thinking about my cognitive thinking.  The biggest obstacle in my life is myself, watching irrelevant TV programs, listening and involving myself with irrelevant people, and lack of focus. My dream job is to work for a corporation drawing up floor plans for small spaces, space planning and organization of furniture/built-ins.  I one day would like to own a small farm, where my family and I could live entirely off the land, learning the survival skills of life, and protecting the earth with our Eco-friendly ways. For now I plan to finish my Interior Design Degree in two years, find love and start a healthy relationship, and find a sustainable career in my field.